Category: Dating and Relationships
Just as the title says, but let's try to keep it a bit clean guys, okay? Would you, or not?
I would have phone sex with my girlfriend or with somebody who i would have strong feelings with and i would like her to be my girlfriend. I would never have phone sex with another girl if i didn't love her or i wouldn't have phone sex with a girl if i already was in a relation ship.
never by phone, never in reality. there
Wow! I only put this up something like 10 minutes ago!
yeah liz, you can't contend with a poster like me. lol
ah Dan, ya don't kno what your missing out on! phone sex is gooood!
only draw back, is it's not that good on voice mails.
yes i like phone sex once in awhile,and yes it's very good to do it with someone and like to h ear them moan on the phne
I have but I would never do that again. It is nasty and wrong.
hang on! Phone sex in voice mail? how does that work/ do you do a little, send a message and wait to receive a reply? I can understand that might not really work, I mean you'd need some good wilpower to hold out for each and every response. lmao
well Kev, your right! will power is what it was. Plus it sucked my credit out as well. I don't think I'll do voice mail anymore! lmao
talk about building the tention...
Hell no.
You mean to tell me people actually get some satisfaction ovet the phone?
Im sorry but it just doesn't make sence.
And wouldn't you wanna save up that energy for the real thing?
I'm with Nikos on this one.
well I'd never do it on something like zone by phone. even though I have no credit to worry about and the toronto zone by phone number is a local call for me, chris n's voice being bland and boring going, digit ignored. would just kill my mood, completely.
but that being said, sure I'd do it in a non voicemail setting, as long as she sounded hot and it was in strict confidence, why the fuck not?
The farthest I would go as far as phone sex is masturbating on the phone to my boyfriend. You wouldn't catch me masturbating to someone I hadn't already done something with or didn't plan to do anything else with.
Wait, Chris N speaks the prompts for the conference system? *dials in for the first time*
I treat phonesex just as I treat sex in general.
Only with someone I care about.
Private, and definitely live!
I'd never pay for phone sex.
Rosie! No, you should dial and hear the voicemail prompts, lol. But all the same I'd have phone sex if it was with someone I knew and I was single. If not then it would be exclusively for my bf if he wasn't around.
I have already had phone sex and it was extremely worth it, so yes, I would do it again!
Good God! How many times does this particular subject have to be brought up? This is the third that I know of.
Becky,
You know around here things always come back up.
maybe if I was dating the personq
Everything has its time and place.
Okay, first I wanna say, that I aggree with Cam on the zone by phone thing. Sorry but that'd be a mood killer for me as well. I mean, "digit ignored" just doesn't do anything for the mood, and would probablly kill it. Wouldn't kno, and not about to find out either.
perhaps the system is trying to tell you to ignore your digit.
lol blake, and I've got a guy, and when we're not together sure I'll have phone sex with him. Have i done it before sure. Who have I done it with? Now that's for me and them to know, and not for you to find out.
I've never done it, and I don't think phone sex is for me, but eh, each to his/her own... There's something about the physical company of a guy that I treasure more.
not for me thanks; not even with my guy! -- too weird!
I had to laugh at the "zone by phone" idea. It certainly gives you enough time to speak your fantasy but yeh, Chris N saying "digit ignored" would kill the mood unless you were Lonestar! lol haha
in that case, he's telling jess that his digit is being ignored.
I agree with Becky, I've seen this topic a couple times before. *shrugs*
I dunno ... phone sex seems rather pointless to me. I think that's mostly because, while I'm very vocal about such things, I'm not especially verbal unless I'm writing about them, so I've never liked the idea of communicating thoughts and fantasies verbally over the phone. And I, like Liz, want the actual physical presence of the guy. I suppose if you're just discussing sexual things and the conversation naturally evolves, that's all well and good, but phone sex itself, not so much for me.
I think Erin said it best in another post, but sadly I'm too lazy to go back and look it up. It had something to do with phone sex being like looking at a menu you can't order from, or some such.
I'd consider it if I was in a long distance relationship and would only get to see my gf vary little.
If given the choice I'd rather use skype then the phone since it's more like having the person there..
I agree with fuzzie. I know I can get from that menue when I'm with my guy, but miles between us doesn't help... I mean his dick isn't that big... lol I guess I can be a verbal person if I'm comforitable. I'd have to be pretty comfortible with the person though. Skype I do find is better for a couple reasons. The sound quality over all is better... ok more than a couple. You don't worry about so many charges, or extentions being picked up. Also if you use a head set you have both hands free. evil grins.
hmmm! maybe I should have included skype sex as well. ah hell! add it to! lmfao!
oh skype sex is better for sure. Much much better, and chris never ever ever ignores my digits, or his for that matter, especially digits 69, muaahahahahah.
I suppose we're talking broadly about providing mutual satisfaction, over a distance, so that probably includes phone, skype, MSN, text messaging and whatever. What about the written word? I've written some pretty decent fantasy fiction (going by the feedback) that has substituted for vocal intercourse. This has the advantage of being more in-depth and - if it's good enough - reusable lmao
ah, let's just stick to phone and skype sex, okay?
Hahaha, I some how new this would become a topic soon enough.
Yes I have had phone sex a time or two, but it is always with someone I truly care about. But I would much rather prefur the real deal in person. I find in person, it is much better then the phone.
I think everyone prefers in person, don't they? this was just a "would you or wouldn't you" thing.
it just sounds dumb and pointless
ROTFL lonestar, Well I have never tried it, AND ROTFL lioness Liz, on voicemail? um, wow how did you survive the 3 hour "sent, friday. (5 minutes) 2 (five minutes) 30. PM May. 30. 2006)
and valid point on the "digit ignored." I mean you are having a nice time, and all of the sudden, "digit ignored." lol, ugh... lol
O...k! let's get one thing clear. I never said anything! about voice mail on the zone! never done it on their, and not going to!
Face it: everyone doesn't live right next-door, two miles down the road, or four hours away. People go on business trips and get lonely, and miss there partners. Life can't always be distance-free.
agreed with that one, cortology! and sometimes, even phone sex and knowing that someone is most likely doing it right along with you is better than just using your hand and your own imagination. and hell even if they're not doing a dam thing and just talking dirty to you, it's all good if they have a hot voice. lol
no, it's not for me.
exactly right Cam! just knowing the other person is getting plesured on either phone or skype, does it sometimes as well.
I agree liz
well its the truth
nope, not for me
I have dun it lots of times!!! I like it!! but i love it in person, that is so much better!!!
use to do it my self also, but am not interstid in it any mor. its way much betterLive,
I agree with those who say it's much better in person, because it is. but sometimes, due to circumstances beyond either of your control, and if you can't be with the person, it's the next best thing
I've already posted to this topic and don't find it especially significant, so I won't repeat my opinions, but I do find it rather stupid when people keep saying that they don't like phone sex because it's better in person. That's obvious, people. Of course it's better in person. I don't think you'll find a single person who'll tell you they'd prefer having phone sex to the real thing. But sometimes, it just isn't possible for whatever reason.
agreed Cam and dancing after dark.
Chelsea brings sensability with one final thought.
Yes I would have phone sex with my girl
Personally, I looove it. It's a heck of a lot better than mastribating alone in my opinion. i mean, you are alone, but the fact that the one you love is on the other end of the line doing it with you and you're experienceing it wih them is awesome to me. I wouldn't do it unless I loved the person though, or if someone asked me to do it with them and I was not in a relationship with them, I would not do it with them. For me though, it's a blast and a heck of a lot more realistic . And I agree that like one poster said a while back, that if you can't see the person for whatever reason, it's the next best thing.
Dawnielle
I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove it. Since I've never actually done it in person, this is the closest thing to it. I haven't done it much, but when I did, with my bf, I loved it. If someone pressures u to do it, like my ex, I didn't like it though. When I didn't want to do it, he got mad at me. But otherwise, it's great with the one you care about.
I ones had a girl curs me out, because I did not want to have phoneSex with her. The thing was that weeks be for she had kickt me to the curv.
I have had phone sex and will continue with people I do not know. Personally I feel that if 2 people are lonely and they want nothing but to get off who gives a fuck.
amen. I agree with rainbowjess88. It can be quite fun sometimes.
Jesus Josh did you get bord or something? I mean look at the date on the last post and yours. lol
I don't know if i could go and do that shit, how the hell could you get off on that though? I don't see how.
To each is there own i guess lol.
jesus christ. this thing seems to keep, cumming, back.
lol you didn't help make it leave, but then again, neither did i lol
yeah well, you can blame Josh aka frequency5481 for that! I'd much rather it stay gone to. ah well, I guess I'm not helping either. lol
No, I didn't. haha!!
Blake, you're my hero. :P
'Cumming' is indeed the word.
phone sex can actually be somewhat fun sometimes if done with the right person...
yeah, it can......didn't you already post that though Josh? Or did I just think you did. lol
well, peoples. I'm out on a limb now. I now act out the part of a gay guy for cash. it's something we call "entertainment"...
Oh wow yes! When I was single, I used to love phone sex! Hell, I still do, only now it's with my boyfriend and we take a different approach to the usual. He just turns me on with his voice and always knows the right things to say, whether they're directly sexual or not, to get me started. But yes, so long as you're sure you can trust the person and you don't get carried away (giving your address and personal information *when you don't know him/her well*, calling all the time etc) phone sex can be fun.
If the person turned me on yes. otherwise no.
NO, its not for me. I tryed a while back, just can't get off that way. I guess its something about the person actually being there with you, seeing the effect you have on them that just makes it so good. Because phone sex, just doesn't, can't do it for me.
It's different for everyone. It also may depend on the person you're trying to do it with.
Yeah, I guess so. I mean, if someone I cared about really wanted to try, I'd give it another shot, just doubt it would have the disired effect.
I am a phone sex operator. I get paid for it.
But do you enjoy what you're doing? or is it just for money. Do you get turned on ?
Well, it's mostly for money. Nope, I really don't enjoy it all that much. I feel ashamed for doing it.
Different folks, different strokes.
No need to be ashamed, think of the people you are giving pleasure to. If you weren't giving them fun, then they wouldn't call you.
If you can, enjoy your work--after all you spend a lot of time doing it.
I personally prefer the real mc'coy, but as I said, different folks ...
Bob
Bob, stop stroking your phone like that.
Yes I would if I really cared for the peron and we were both into it.
Becky! that phone is filthy.
Where…have…you…had…it.
Shame on you. I told you about that.
Bob
Phone sex is a last resort for me, but quite enjoyable when I do it. I would not mind at all doing it for money though. Anyone hiring? lol
cutie are you talking about having phone sex me *smiles*
Yeh zoners, can you imagine phone sex with crazy Mike?! I can hear it now. It would sound like this. Oooo baby. You like that. Oooo yeh, wright there, yeh, do it like that. God damn it, the fucking radio station is fucking up. I love that fucking song. God damn it. Haha. sorry Mike, I couldn't resist. LOL. Anyway, phone sex can be a good thing. If two people are into each other & are comfortable with it. It's especially good when you can't be with the one you care about. Remember, if you are going to have phone sex always use protection. Make sure you dial Star 67. Haha.
In a practical sense, phone sex is the safest sex one can ever have :=P
No diseases, no pregnancies, no wondering if you are hitting her g spot or not, cause if she doesn't know her own, then she isn't worth the effort.
Abstinence is not sex, so it does not count as so called "safe sex". :=P
So, whats all this post about "phone sex being wrong", "its nasty". Real sex is nasty as it is with fluids flowing all over the place. Of course, for the immature mind, sex in any form will seem "growse". For those types, kissing is an act of evil.
Phone sex is like anything else. Different people have varying experiences and can lead you to pleasure or repel you in disgust for their crude approach. As in real sex, you have those you approach it with slow, sential methods, or those that go at it like hounds in heat that lasts no more then 2 minutes then roll off and drift to sleep forgetting even to ask your name. Phone sex is likewise, if you get a person who only knows to say crude words without class, then perhaps you will have a terrible experience.
Phone sex is great, provided that you look at it like everything else. Its different from person to person, mood, expression, understanding and exceptance, and the maturity of the mind.
I think phone sex would be great with Cutie. Dam she is hot and just going shopping with her is a blast and man the looks she gets, but then again she was a model.
phonesex with cutie would be great shes ......hmmm lose of words
mmm jen, when you call,... let's?
Ray, Lets what? lol
lol, don't try to hide what you really wanna do...
She sounds like she can be a good moanner.
You better believe it. Smiles.
Believe it? I do... You have some personal experience with her? haha!!
Thats none of your business! Smiles. I'll never tell.
Take that as an yes. Lol!
Lol JK dude.
Smiles.
lol, believe it? and I also, take tat as a yes... hehehehe
Hahahahaha, you are really funny rayray.
I'm bing very truthful while I write this, I am all forphone sex. I see nothing wrong with it.
I have nothing at all again phone sex; considering I've done it for work!
Hmmm!
Someone said that phone sex is nasty and wrong? How is that? I love touching myself and hearing others do the same.
Oh, I've had Skype sex for the first time here recently and I love it!
Hey just call 867. 5309 babe. smiles.
Yes... It can be quite fun...
Phone sex? Hell yeah! I absolutely love it. It's safe, fun and gets the job done when you are in a long distance relationship, or if you just wanna get off real quick with a stranger on a chatline. I've done it many many time, and plan to do it many many more. Hearing someone cum is absolutely wonderful, and especially if it's a stranger, you know you can just hang up the phone afterword and go to sleep, and noone will think anything about it. LOL
Well, at least phone sex is more real than cybersex. How do people get satisfaction out of typing what they want to do to each other? Now that's wrong. At least you have a voice to go on with phone sex. But I wouldn't do it with anybody but my boyfriend or any person I was dating. It works when you have to be in a long distance relationship. How else are we gonna do it in that case? I guess that's why I do it sometimes now.
Cyber sex leaves too much room for fake crap. You never really know if the person on the other end is really getting in to it or not. I'd take voice over text any day.
people can fake on the phone too. actually, this is one situation where males can fake it. lol
hahaha, very true. I sure would hate to think that someone had to fake it. I mean, what's the point? Why even bother if you're really not in to it?
So you've never read any erotica then? There's a lot to be said for the written word, some very good written material out there and when you know it's been written by someone special, with you in mind - well all I can say is - damn! :-)
Besides, it takes a certain talent to write more than the usual "I want you to stick it in me" rubbish ...
Hey Dusty, I want you to stick it in me. LOL
I *thought* one of my restraining orders had lapsed. I think it's time to renew! :-)
Oh Becky won't you let me write sweet irrotic things about playing with your buckeyes?
omg! someone braught this board back? bord much?
Lols, Liz
lol! some one tried to get me to have phone sex. it was just too weird. it's not the same as the real thing, and i'm not about to have phone sex with a complete stranger.
lmfao, ok, i have to say thati always have the most fun, laughing my head off in the dating board. ther's just so much stuff on here to be laughed at. and seeing people saying that they love phone sex, even more funny. lol, but i guess, as long as they take satisfaction out of it, they can do what ever the hell they want. but for me, i dont see whats the fun in it. i guess i'm just too awkward for it. haha, and anway, i think its kind of wrong. *shrugs* its just me, i spose.
I find it funny when the little teenaged girls come on here and say they hate phone sex. After all, they're like fourteen and fifteen years old. What do they know anyway. I'd rather phone fuck a guy then have a different zone bf every week. That way of living seems very popular among some of the ladies on this system. I'm not saying to go and just grab some random person, I'm just saying that there's not a damn thing wrong with it.
Hey, Andrea, wanna phone? (Grin!)
Hey any girl who wants to have phone sex with me let me know, after all you will look like what ever I want over the phone.
Uh,, lol... Well I do believe in one thing and one thing only. If you wanna have phone sex casually that's on you. However, I do believe that two people must! hav! a! close! and very! mutual understanding bond.. Trust must be built ... Love... and feeling secure... :) And you never tell secrets? Well guess what? I don't either LOL!
Yeah, I'd do it.
Ah, Andrea, love how you classify all teenagers the same...
Anyways, I get what Minh's saying, but no I would totally do it, he's just got to be I don't know, not some random stranger. I see where that could be good, it would just make me feel like a slut or something. I enjoy it only with people I find to be at least friends, although it's way more reassuring to phone fuck someone you trust, as least for me. Not sure why that is. And as far as the sibering goes, only if I were really horny would I do that. Given the choice, phone sex definitely is better.
Agreed with sarah about the classifying thing. Why classify all teenagers in to the same category. Not everyone is alike ... and lol sarah, you want to phone sex with me babe. .... mmm, lmao
With my boyfriend, yes I have and I did with one of my x boyfriends too.
I think if one does have phone sex, it's best with the one you love and trust. If i'd ever done it with a stranger, I'd feel somehow cheapened, and less a woman.
I agree with ChrisN every thing has its time and place :d
Yeah. Agreed with Minhlet and Sarah. My one friend has tried to set me up with "bootycalls" but um... eeeewwwwww?
No, I have no idea how people go about conducting it, and I don't want to know.
yep